what your vendor team should know (xo, your wedding photog)

After 150+ weddings over the last 6 years, I’ve learned a few things and want to share them with you! If you’re envisioning a stylish, unique, fun and memorable wedding for your guests (and yourselves), then you need to read this.

Weddings are one of the most fast-moving days of your lives, while also being the most emotional, expensive and exhausting — they take expertise and experience from so many talented professionals to occur seamlessly. From my perspective as a Baltimore wedding photographer with an architecture + design background, here are 5 things I recommend discussing with the rest of your vendor team in advance, to ensure your photos are the most authentic, beautiful and genuine version they can possibly be.

ps: if you need vendor recommendations for any of these categories (and more!), I’m happy to share my list of favorites once you’re officially part of the family of #urpcouples! You’re welcome in advance. ;)

1. having the planner / florist / officiant’s help with this one thing will have a huge impact on your ceremony photos:

…ensuring the ceremony backdrop is (and YOU as a couple are too!) centered in the aisle, to avoid the space looking unbalanced and slightly off -- unfortunately photoshop and editing after the fact can’t fix this, but taking a step back during setup to double check can go a long way! This is a huge pet peeve of mine since it’s so easy to prevent.

Sometimes, the design of a space won’t allow the aisle to be set up so that it’s centered on the wall or backdrop you’ll be standing in front of, or the chairs are not setup yet when your florist begins installing the ceremony backdrop, but if this is the case, have them ask that at least the front 2 chairs are placed so they can ensure it is all centered from there! Knowing any issues in advance (one of the reasons why final walkthroughs at your venue with your planner [and/or florist, photographer, venue coordinator etc], is so beneficial!) and planning for a creative solution can go a long way. I can almost guarantee that waiting until the day of to see how it looks once everything is setup is too late!

2. ask that your DJ / band / entertainment does this one thing with us, but does not use these:

documenting all of the reception events (introductions, toasts, speeches, dances, etc) in their best light benefits from a heads-up right before they’re about to happen -- we may need to reposition ourselves, our flashes or the person giving the speech and scrambling at the last minute isn’t a good look. ...a simple check-in goes a long way!

You know what else isn’t a good look? A dance floor full of speckled or lasered dancers. Unless you specifically enjoy the look of chicken pox on your guests, please ask your DJ not to use colorful lighting dots / laser beams because they are terribly unflattering in photos!

3. one of the beauty related questions I always get in advance (and am happy to answer):

I am always happy to communicate (or let the planner share this info!) when hair + makeup should be complete for photos in advance of the wedding day to set the tone for a relaxed start... when hair/makeup runs on time, it means the day won’t start off rushed and stressed and our couple can take their time getting dressed and soaking it all in!

4. a reasonable ask of the videographer, who I’m physically standing alongside the whole day:

working together as a creative team that communicates both before the wedding day and on the day of, to avoid getting in each other’s shots (and placing tripods / light stands in each others way ;)) will ensure a fabulous experience for everyone... if we can tag team different creative ideas for couple’s portraits -- we all benefit!

5. please relay this important message to your catering team!:

no one wants photos taken while they’re eating, so feeding the photographer (+ videographer) right after the couple gets their dinner allows us to be ready to photograph the speeches / toasts / special dances when they begin… my favorite caterers (IYKYK) know that it’s to everyone’s benefit to not feed the photographers last, but if you have any questions, you know how to reach me! ;)

Do you have any specific questions about these or other vendor considerations? I’m happy to help, just email me at naomi@urbanrowphoto.com and I’ll do my best to point you in the right direction — I truly believe if we all function as a supportive, kind and cohesive team on the day of, it’s a better experience for everyone!! No one wants added stress on a wedding day that could have been avoided with a simple conversation in advance. ;)

xo,
Naomi

caroline + brian | a colorful mural engagement in dc at alethia tanner park

As soon as I learned Alethia Tanner Park in DC has a huge variety of creative murals and Caroline + Brian live within walking distance, I knew their engagement photos in DC were going to be fun, relaxed, colorful and joyful!

We met up on a warm and gorgeous June evening where we had most of the park to ourselves other than a few bicyclists strolling by; while these cuties enjoy going on nature walks, they are city people at heart and felt the bright, energetic vibe of this spot made them feel most at home… I couldn’t have loved our time together more!!

Give me bright + bold color with a sweet couple to add adorable smiles to such unique murals any day of the week; enjoy these favorites from Caroline + Brian’s DC engagement session!

Caroline and Brian, I am beyond excited to spend the day with you celebrating your wedding at The Butterfly Room in Baltimore SO SOON! Until then, keep dancing together, visiting your favorite local spots and making each other laugh — it’s a recipe for the best memories!

xo,
Naomi

demri + eugene | a coastal chic kent island resort wedding

When Demri’s maid-of-honor mentioned how you know it's true love when your partner can love all of you, “even your weirdness”, I realized that is the perfect summation of Eugene + Demri’s relationship! It’s so clear to anyone watching, that they love every aspect of each other in so many meaningful ways. Their genuine joy and excitement radiates so much happiness, it was such an honor to photograph!

This summer wedding at Kent Island Resort was picturesque, fun, comfortable and so intimate while being beautifully romantic. With the backdrop of the waterfront for their first look, the grove of trees and gardens for their ceremony and cocktail hour, the historic manor house for group portraits and the coastal tented pavilion to party within, there was no shortage of amazing moments and heartfelt emotion throughout the day!

13 Memorable Moments and details from Eugene + Demri’s Wedding at Kent Island Resort:

1. Eugene + Demri’s wedding weekend started off the night before the big day with a relaxed and fun welcome party. I loved the opportunity to mingle with their closest family + friends while photographing intimate moments in a candid and documentary style. Not only did it provide me with the opportunity to observe and get to know everyone, but it also helped everyone get to know me so that they were more comfortable in front of my camera the next day.

2. The wedding day started off really cloudy, but the skies quickly turned blue, almost as if Mother Nature knew it was an important day! After that, it was the perfect August afternoon – warm, sunny, and beautiful.

3. Both E + D got ready onsite with Eugene in a suite at the manor house and Demri in the Potter’s Shed, a short walk away. It was so luxurious from a time standpoint to have everyone together on one property the entire day!

4. Every bride dreams of a WOW moment, and whew… Demri certainly understood the assignment! She was perfection in her strapless gown with an intricate beaded pattern. Her sweetheart neckline was accentuated with a stunning necklace that had been worn by the women in Eugene’s family before her. It was the perfect “something old”. With its beaded edges, her cathedral veil tied the look together. We all know that Demri is beautiful, but I don’t think anyone was prepared for just how amazing she looked as a bride!

5. Speaking of not being prepared for Demri’s bridal look, I’m pretty sure she stunned Eugene! Their first look near the water was such an emotional moment. They exchanged sweet notes to each other beforehand, and it served as such a good reminder of why we’re all here in the first place – because two people fell in love. After their first look, all of the nervous jitters were gone, and they were ready to tie the knot + dance the night away!

6. After the first look, we grabbed some portraits on the dock, in the grove of trees, and basically, all over the grounds of the Kent Island Resort! This all-white coastal chic space is one of my favorite Maryland wedding venues so I’m always happy when the wedding party is excited to explore it, too.

7. During their ceremony, the officiant shared great life advice and 3 things they told him they loved about each other. It was so sweet and special to hear — I absolutely love when couples make their ceremony so personalized and meaningful!

8. The reception space was truly coastal chic. Demri selected high floral arrangements for the head table and small centerpieces for the other guests’ tables. The minimal decorations let the modern, light and airy venue really shine.

9. One personal touch that I absolutely loved was all the signage and custom cornhole boards they made themselves. It was all gorgeous and modern – a lot like our stunning bride!

10. You know I always love when an #urbanrowpup shows up! E + D’s dogs, Benji + Beau, weren’t forgotten during their paw-rents’ wedding. The signature cocktails were named after them and little figurines of them served as the cake topper on their wedding cake.

11. The vibe of the reception was incredible and the band, 10 Spot, kept everyone on the dance floor all night long.

12. Well… not all night long, lol. At the end of the night, E + D added some extra time just for me and the videographer to capture them having one last dance alone on the dance floor. They played a special song and it was such an honor to witness such incredible and emotional moments. I wish everyone would do a last dance at the end of their reception!

13. Once their final dance was complete, they enjoyed a sparkler exit with their guests. There’s just something about the energy of sparklers ending the night that makes my romantic heart swoon!

Eugene + Demri, it was an absolute joy working with the two of you. The love you have for each other is inspiring! You truly love every part of each other, even the weird parts :) and Demri, I’m so glad you found your Big Cheeto! Thank you for letting me document your picture-perfect wedding weekend - it was only the beginning of what I’m sure will be a lifetime full of love + happiness!!

xo,
Naomi

VENDOR TEAM:

venue + catering: kent island resort
photography: urban row photography
videography: fordham films
florist: wildflower md
band: 10 spot
gown: zavanna ZB22440-1Z
dress boutique: the bridal room
shoes: badgley mischka
bridesmaids dresses: bhldn
hair and makeup: amanda moran artistry
dessert: blue crab cupcakes
groom’s attire: generation tux
officiant: erik evenson of premier wedding pastors
invitations: the knot
signage: unmeasured event
ceremony musicians: two rivers chamber music
stage: eastern shore tents & events

sasha + greg | a classic summer wedding with vibrant florals at the winslow

Sasha + Greg got married at one of my favorite venues: The Winslow, in downtown Baltimore. Even though the weather was crazy – constant clouds, sun, rain, storms, rinse and repeat – this was one of the most beautiful and elegant weddings I’ve had the pleasure of photographing!

Sasha + Greg are so effortlessly in love that it just made the entire day so relaxed and wonderful. From Sasha’s beaded flats and Greg’s custom-made suit to the lush and vibrant floral arrangements paired with the layered gold place settings — it was all absolutely breathtaking. You could easily tell that the Nouvelle Weddings team thought about every detail and left nothing untouched, making this day absolutely perfect for this incredibly sweet couple. I was beyond excited to photograph it!

11 Memorable Moments and Details from Sasha + Greg’s Wedding at The Winslow (with portraits at The Butterfly Room):

1. While getting ready at the Four Seasons Baltimore, Sasha’s daughters wore matching blue satin pajamas that popped against the vibrant orange and golden yellow florals.

2. Greg wore a custom navy blue suit by Christopher Schafer Clothier and looked absolutely flawless. That suit was lined with a fun patterned blue fabric and his name embroidered inside. It was so full of personality — I love how confident custom suits make grooms feel on such an important occasion!

3. Sasha + Greg kept their wedding party intimate and meaningful with just Sasha’s two teenage daughters and Greg’s teenage son.

4. Sasha’s day of details were so fun and elegant all at once: she included a cute mini beaded clutch, a satin ivory clutch with a large bow, crystal-embellished Bella Belle Willow flats, sparkling rhinestone jewelry and a custom invitation suite designed by Ruby the Fox.

5. The paper goods and day of details were so pretty and unique that they deserve their own time in the spotlight! They included white and gold letterpress menus, personalized navy blue cocktail napkins, a geometric navy blue envelope liner and a letterpress invitation with a band made up of a custom watercolor pattern in shades of blue (that also matched the cocktail table linens at the reception!) that were exquisite to pair with vibrant and summery blooms from Victoria Clausen Florals.

6. Originally, we planned for Sasha + Greg to have their first look outside by the water. But you know what they say about best-laid plans… with the weather not cooperating, we were lucky enough to have planned ahead (thanks to the Nouvelle Weddings team!) and opted for an indoor first look at The Butterfly Room. Not having to scramble and make changes on the fly was incredibly helpful. We took portraits inside the front of the venue and outside in their open-air courtyard, appropriately called the Ruins… these were some of my favorite from the day since we had the space all to ourselves and the freedom to get creative!

ps: The Butterfly Room is a new Baltimore wedding venue that features a modern industrial vibe of exposed brick, tons of natural light, a metal steel wall and a chic garage door that created amazing lines and shadows, which the architect in me definitely appreciated! (I’ve photographed at this venue before so be sure to check out this blog post if you’re interested in learning more about it!)

7. After the Butterfly Room, we headed to their ceremony at The Winslow. Held in the trainshed room, the aisles were lined with bright, colorful floral arrangements and gold lanterns. Watching Sasha walk up the aisle to Greg was an incredible moment full of so much love and excitement!

8. The ceremony was officiated by Sasha’s best friend’s husband. They have been friends for over 30 years — having him officiate added such a sweet, personal touch to the day.

9. During golden hour, we snuck out to grab some candid portraits on the roof of The Winslow. With the Baltimore skyline as their backdrop and the most perfect golden rays shining on them after the ceremony was done, they were so relaxed and looked incredible in these moments!

10. After sunset on the roof, it was time for dinner… one of my favorite details of Sasha + Greg’s reception was the tablescape and place settings. They incorporated gold chargers topped with white and gold plates that had elegant line work and a menu card tying it all together with a watercolor belly band (that matched the invitation suite and cocktail linens if you remember!). Between the detailed place settings, the lush floral arrangements, the gold geometric chairs and the royal blue tablecloths, the whole reception vibe was so high-end and aesthetically pleasing. LynnAaron and Kara of Nouvelle blew us all away!

11. Then the reception dance party started! The energy on the dance floor started with their first dance and kept going all night once the dance floor props came out: light-up sunglasses and glow sticks only added to the crazy fun candids that occurred as Mixing Maryland kept the dance floor full all night!

Sasha + Greg, your wedding was incredible, just as the two of you are! You complement each other perfectly, and I am so happy that you found each other. Thank you for the opportunity to document your wedding day. I wish you nothing but the best and an exciting future together full of adventures!

xo,
Naomi

HUGE THANKS TO THIS TALENTED VENDOR TEAM:

planning & design: Lynn Aaron of Nouvelle Weddings
day of coordination: Kara of Nouvelle Weddings
venue: The Winslow
first look portraits: The Butterfly Room
photography: Urban Row Photography
florist: Victoria Clausen Floral Events
catering: Copper Kitchen
beauty: No Filter Glam
gown: Martina Liana #1486
boutique: Garnish
shoes: Bella Belle Shoes, Willow style
groom’s tux: Christopher Schafer
bridesmaids: Bella Bridesmaids Baltimore
groomsman: Hugo
ceremony music: Hill Chamber Music
officiant: Eric Dickman
DJ: Mixing Maryland, DJ Cubie
furniture: Pretty Little Wedding Co.
lighting & draping: Event Dynamics
photobooth: Monumental Photo Booth
rentals: Select Event Group
stationery: Ruby The Fox
transportation: Ride Thoroughbred

madeline + jacob | intercontinental wharf wedding in dc with fall colorado vibes

On a breezy and bright blue-skied early October Saturday, Madeline and Jacob became husband and wife in front of not only their closest friends and family, but the cutest retro s’mores camping trailer and the glistening waterfront of the DC Wharf…

The inspiration for their elegant and cozy Fall wedding celebration was all thanks to the start of their relationship taking place in Colorado; M+J’s first date involved leaf peeping, so incorporating all the Fall vibes into their wedding day was Event Planning DC’s task and they crushed it, as usual!

I couldn’t be happier to share these favorites from their wedding —it was such a memorable day for such sweet families coming together!

5 MEMORABLE MOMENTS AND DETAILS FROM M+J’S WEDDING AT THE INTERCONTINENTAL WHARF DC

1. Jacob was so emotional during the ceremony… which is proof that by doing a first look, it doesn’t mean your partner won’t be emotional when they see you walk down the aisle!!

2. Madeline’s grandma was their flower girl and had a smile on her face from start to finish down the aisle!

3. Their favorite local musician, Cris Jacobs, played at the ceremony and cocktail hour.

4. The florals + greenery were so lush and full of Fall colors and textures; the chuppah was made up of white birch posts topped with flowers in shades of dark orange, gold, mustard, ivory and soft dried grasses.

5. The reception ballroom was incredibly cozy, romantic and elegant! With tables full of colored amber and green glassware, gold placesettings and garlands of greenery on the table as well as hanging above the head table with hanging candles, I couldn’t get enough!

Congrats again, Madeline + Jacob! It was such an honor to document your wedding day and be a part of the official start to your MD adventures as husband and wife!

I hope you both continue to enjoy making each other laugh and dancing with Laila, for decades to come!!

xo,
Naomi

kudos to this stellar vendor team:

Wedding Planning & Design: Event Planning DC
Venue: Intercontinental Wharf DC
Floral and Rentals: Edge Floral Event Designers
Photography: Urban Row Photography
Rentals: DC Event Rentals and Select Event Group
Bride’s Hair: Amanda Moran Artistry
BM Hair: Mariani
Makeup: BTV Beauty
Ceremony & Cocktail Music: Cris Jacobs
Reception Music: Free Spirit Band, Entertainment Exchange
Cake: Sugarbakers Cakes
Invitation: MLC Designs
Escort Wall Design: Event Planning DC, Production: Edge Floral Event Designers, Leaves: Meaningful Frames
Alternative Guest Book: Meaningful Frames
Wedding Dress: Posh Bridal MD
Groom’s Attire: Paul Stewart
Groomsmen Attire: Men’s Wearhouse

rachel + jordan | a classic, fun + luxe spring wedding at the belvedere in baltimore

The amount of joy and happy tears present at Rachel + Jordan’s wedding at the Belvedere on a late spring Sunday in March was truly immeasurable! Their love for each other, their families, friends and Baltimore, the city they call home — it was all such an incredible celebration full of energy, romance, a scented ceremony (!) and the most stunning chuppah I have ever seen!!

Enjoy these early favorites from Rachel + Jordan’s classic spring Belvedere wedding in Baltimore…

THE 9 MEMORABLE MOMENTS AND DETAILS FROM R+J’S BELVEDERE WEDDING THAT WILL MAKE YOU SMILE:

1. Rachel wore pearl earrings from one grandmother and a vintage diamond ring from her other grandmother. Jordan wore sloth astronaut cufflinks!! Read their engagement blog post for more on the meaning of the sloth astronaut! ;)
   

2. Their first look on the promenade was full of overwhelming emotion, bringing tears to Jordan’s eyes and the need to pause while taking it all in, especially how gorgeous Rachel looked!
   

3. Rachel designed the ceremony space and guest entry sequence to smell of their favorite Jo Malone scent. It was a first for me; I’m convinced it’s one of the best ways to personalize a wedding, since scent is a huge memory driver!!!
   

4. The chuppah was one of the most beautifully lush I’ve ever seen, constructed with gold frames by Victoria Clausen and flowered by Steelcut with shades of maroon, burgundy, magenta, toffee, light pink and peach in varieties of roses, peonies, orchids, anemones, hanging amaranthus and more. The sweetheart table was also overflowing with these flowers in an asymmetrical arrangement. There were also pomegranates in the table floral arrangements…!
   
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5. The speeches made by both sets of parents and Congressman and House Majority Leader Steny Hoyer, brought tears to my eyes. So much respect and pride shared for these lovebirds; it was simply an honor to be in their presence.

6. The black and white checkered dance floor brightened up the space and added the perfect punch of contrast to draw your attention to the twirls and epic moves of their first dance.

7. R+J and all of their guests wore sneakers (some were so creatively decorated!) to honor Jordan’s late brother, a talented basketball player and coach.

8. Rachel made an entrance on the cream cruiser bike to announce dessert, in her second party dress full of sparkle, fringe and celebration!

9. We were able to take portraits in Mt. Vernon under the blooming magnolia trees near the Washington Monument and it felt like we were in Europe among all the cobblestones and beautiful architecture surrounding us!

We also made sure to explore the venue fully since there are so many iconic and unique backdrops for photos at the Belvedere — we took portraits in the Owl Bar, the romantic nook on the 12th floor, the window above the marquee and the 13th Floor during the after party.

MAZEL TOV, Rachel + Jordan!!! It was an absolute honor to document these memories for you! Your wedding was so much fun, photogenic, elegant and meaningful - like you two and your incredible relationship. I hope you continue laughing, dancing, eating, holding hands and travelling together for decades to come… you are such an inspiration to us all!

xo,
Naomi

VENDOR TEAM:
planning + design: Celebrations
venue + catering: Belvedere & Co Events
getting ready: Four Seasons Baltimore
photography: Urban Row Photography
videography: Lee Russell Films
beauty: No Filter Glam
flowers: Steelcut Flower Co
chuppah structure: Victoria Clausen’s Floral Rents
officiant: Rabbi Howard Tilman of Beth Israel Congregation
band: Broadsound Band
paper goods: Jenifer Sirkis Designs
signature scent: Jo Malone Wild Bluebell
wedding dress: Allure Bridals Style 9660
boutique: Betsy Robinson’s Bridal
shoes: Nike (with added bling by the bride herself!)
groom’s attire: Paul Stuart
rings: Star Jewelers on High
linens/china/rentals: Select Event Group
lighting and dance floor: Event Dynamics
ice cream: Cream Cruiser
transportation: Ride Thoroughbred
photobooth: Unfotogettable Events

caroline + josh | an intimate winter wedding at woodberry kitchen

Caroline + Josh chose to get married on an incredible wedding date — one that actually won’t happen again for 200 years! On a rainy and overcast Twosday (and it was actually a Tuesday!) February 22, 2022, these two sweethearts shared an intimate, memorable and cozy dinner wedding celebration with their closest family and friends at Woodberry Kitchen in the Clipper Mill neighborhood of Baltimore.

The rain stopped just in time for us to take portraits in and around the restaurant, one of my favorite spots in Baltimore full of all the best historic industrial vibes. Smiles never left their faces (and mine!); I hope you enjoy reliving their once-in-a-lifetime love story as much as I enjoyed being a part of it…

Woodberry Kitchen is such a unique and inviting space for intimate, micro weddings in Baltimore. Here are 5 reasons why this couple and their wedding stole my heart:

1. Caroline’s engagement ring was Josh’s grandmother’s and the bracelet she wore was her great-grandmother’s.

2. Caroline and Josh were beaming as they walked down the aisle together into their intimate ceremony. I love seeing how couples make traditions their own - Josh’s aunt even officiated and married them!

3. Guests were seated at 2 12’ long tables that allowed an intimate, family style feel to the dinner celebration with 3 course menus, checkered plaid napkins and tealights at each placesetting, to add to the cozy feel.

4. Caroline wore a fur wrap and Josh wore a paisley mustard yellow vest! Her bouquet included maroon calla lillies, dark red king protea, white and red roses and seeded eucalyptus.

5. The string lights and vaulted ceiling with full-length windows letting in as much natural light as possible and worn wood floorboards underfoot, added a romantic feel as appetizers were passed and guests mingled happily into the night.

6. Caroline and Josh share such a gentle, caring relationship full of sweet gestures and goofy laughs; while they now live in the heart of Fells Point, proposing at the Pagoda in Patterson Park is how it all started for these cuties!

Congratulations again, Caroline + Josh!! Your winter wedding at Woodberry Kitchen was such a joy and honor to be a part of; I hope you both continue to enjoy cozy, warm and delicious meals together with your favorite people for decades to come!

xo,
Naomi

venue: Woodberry Kitchen
flowers: Flowers Extraordinaire
dress: Allure, Romance 3457
boutique: Love It! At Stella’s
fur wrap: Sissily Designs
jewelry: Tigerlilly Couture

6 important questions to ask a wedding photographer

There are tons of lists you can find in wedding magazines and blogs about all the questions you should ask potential wedding photographers, but I wanted to clear the air and distill it down to the most important ones (…at least in my mind)!

Here are some of the questions I often hear from couples and some that I don’t always hear but feel are very important to ask to make sure you’re extremely comfortable with the person you choose to document your most important and best day (yet)!

ps: you might want to save / bookmark this post to refer back to and share it with your newly engaged (or soon-to-be-engaged) friends!

What to Ask A Wedding Photographer at Your Initial Consult/Meeting

1. To see a full gallery (or 2-3!) …bonus if one of them took place at your venue!

However, be careful… don’t get caught up in thinking “if my photographer hasn’t worked there yet, do I need to find one that has?” Short answer: NO.
Pro Tip: Our creativity is heightened when we visit and photograph at a venue for the first time. Trust me! ;)

Also please keep in mind that your wedding will likely look very different than any gallery we share — as it should! The colors, vibe and/or season may be similar to yours, but in the end, what you’re really looking for is to make sure that the photographer has the ability to document a variety of moments throughout the day with ease: both big and small moments, candids and formals; that they have a mastery of shooting in a variety of conditions: low-lit churches, rain/wind, dark ceremony / reception spaces, etc. and that there is a clear and compelling and real (aka: not forced or overly posed or stiff) story of the day being told through the photographs…

2. Will they go on a final walkthrough or visit your venue prior to the wedding if they’ve never been before?

I absolutely will and even if I have photographed there before, I believe it’s extremely valuable and if I can align my schedule to work with your visit, count me in!

3. How do they direct family formals and make sure not to miss anyone?!

COMMUNICATION! I will share a standard family photo list with you in advance and we will go over it to make sure we have a good understanding of the VIPs in your fam! I’ll also bring it with me on the day of the wedding. Another reason why having 2 photographers is hugely helpful: usually the second photographer will be helping to wrangle people, get them up and ready on deck and keep track of any groupings we need to go back to.

4. Do they have trusted vendors they can share with you?

Heck yes! Just ask and you will receive the most comprehensive list (once you’re officially booked with Urban Row)! I only share the names of people I have worked with on a wedding day or during an editorial shoot so that I am confident you will also love their communication style, talent and personality!

5. What makes them different than other photographers?

You can read my reasons here (see the first 3 questions!). ;)

6. How do they ensure your images are backed up before they deliver them in case technology fails?

For me, both of my cameras shoot and record the same images to two cards so I always have at least one card to work with if the other becomes corrupt. I also never delete / format the cards until after I’ve delivered your wedding so if for some reason my computer and external hard drive both fail, I will have the cards to go back to. I also back everything up to an offsite third party backup system just as another method to ensure everything is safe!!

I know for most couples, this is your first time planning a wedding and it’s so hard to know what to ask all of your vendors… I love it when couples ask me questions! I’m an open book and happy to share if you’re curious or concerned — just ask away!

jessica + william (aka swinny) | an intimate summer elopement at the Sagamore Pendry

This wedding day has been 10 years in the making and I’m so honored to have been able to document the love and passion between Jessica and Swinny!

These stylish lovebirds were married at the stunning Sagamore Pendry in historic Fells Point in late July and the weather was unheard of for a Baltimore summer day: it was warm but not too hot and humid, breezy with fluffy clouds in the bright blue sky and we had the courtyard of the Pendry all to ourselves… yay for intimate weekday weddings!

Their favorite things about each other in their words (I can’t even… they are such a perfect pair!):

Swinny: “Her aura, beauty, intellect, attitude, energy and vibe. Our life is amazing and I am so blessed to have found someone who I absolutely love and adore on every level imaginable!”

Jessica: “Never have I met someone who has such a passion for life, people, and us. His sense of humor, ability to connect with people - whether it be a waiter or a friend, is contagious. He gives me butterflies when my eyes meet his across a room and I’ve never felt more loved or respected than when with him. Life is so easy between us and I cannot wait to spend the rest of our days together!”

If this photo doesn’t say it all, I don’t know what does….

MY FAVORITE 5 THINGS ABOUT THEIR FELLS POINT ELOPEMENT AT THE PENDRY:

1. The pure joy they both exuded. The excitement was palpable and so genuine.

2. The wording and script of the ceremony (performed by Rachel Zajac of Ceremony by Rachel) was incredibly heartfelt, personalized and full of warmth. I love how she describes marriage…
   
   ”Marriage is the most beautiful thing that can happen between two people in love. A marriage is more than just husband and wife. It is a bridge which allows the love of two special people to give meaning and worth and wonder to life. It is a continual process of building; of shaping; of communicating; of caring. It is the deepest and sweetest understanding. It is sharing todays and tomorrows together and making each one more treasured and more complete than anyone could make alone. A marriage is a home interwoven with hopes and memories and dreams. The thankfulness and love it can bring have no comparison.”
   

3. They both wore Christian Louboutins with the iconic and classic red sole. His and hers (in gold though)… OBSESSED!

4. Swinny had a custom navy black and blue tux made by the QG. Jessica wore a one shoulder ruffled gown by Mac Duggal.

5. Their daughters are an integral part of their relationship; Jessica’s daughter walked her down the aisle and both were included in the ceremony during the family vows.

Congratulations, Jessica and Swinny (and to your daughters)!! I couldn’t be more excited for your newlywed status; your wedding was breathtaking and left me completely speechless… I truly believe you’re ‘simply the best’.

xo,
Naomi

venue: Sagamore Pendry Baltimore
officiant: Ceremony by Rachel
florist: Flowers & Fancies
beauty: Four One Oh salon

sara + greg | summer garden party wedding at Stone Ridge Hollow

On the first Saturday in June (hot yet cicada-free… I will take it!), surrounded by their closest friends and family among the rolling hills of Stone Ridge Hollow and not a single cloud in the sky, Sara and Greg officially became husband and wife!!

These two are so perfect in the way they love and respect each other, I couldn’t stop smiling behind the camera! Their day was just as perfect as they are!! If you can’t get enough of their love, click HERE to read more…

5 elements that made Sara + Greg’s rustic garden wedding party at Stone Ridge Hollow memorable, fun and relaxed:

1. The texture on Sara’s A-line, lightweight, silk deep v-neck dress combined with the elegant floral design of her white and green bouquet with hints of blue thistle, created a romantic and relaxed tone to the day - her dress had pockets (YES!) and her veil was super simple which allowed the shape and detail on her dress to stand out. The bridesmaids’ full-length dusty blue dresses were formal yet fun and the perfect look for a hot June day!

2. The ceremony was officiated by Greg’s dad and included Greg’s nephew as the cutest little ringbearer.

3. Sara and Greg took the time to see each other before the ceremony for a first look at the pond while also saying private vows to each other under a tree… all of these made for gorgeous photo ops while also allowing them to relax and have a few moments to breathe before the formal events got underway with all of their guests.

4. Cream Cruiser ice cream sammies + sorbet push pops for dessert, served from the cutest pink bike! Bonus photo ops?! YES… scroll down to see!

5. Getting their hair and makeup done off-site and arriving at the venue only to get dressed allowed Sara and the bridesmaids to be focused, clutter-free and right on time for the getting ready photos which meant the rest of the day was also efficient, on-time and super relaxed!

The reception had an incredibly lush, garden-inspired head table for the entire wedding party; the tablescape included light blue glassware and napkins, wildflower seed packet favors for each guest, copper geometric vases and light pink peonies, lilies, hydrangeas, blue thistle and garden roses.

It was such a beautiful and elegant rustic garden party vibe with the draping and bistro lights crossing over the dance floor!

We got incredibly lucky with the sunset during golden hour! We almost missed it - luckily Stone Ridge Hollow’s golf cart driver was more than happy to chauffeur us up to the top of the property where the glow was simply priceless!

Congratulations again, Mr + Mrs. Hirsch!! It was an absolute joy to celebrate alongside you at Stone Ridge Hollow!

xo,
Naomi

VENDOR TEAM

venue: Stone Ridge Hollow
florist: Smalley Floral Design
photography: Urban Row Photography
catering: Hunt Valley Catering
hair + makeup: Something Blu
band: Bachelor Boys Band
dessert: Cake by Jason + Cream Cruiser
groom’s attire: Black Tux
dress designer: Peter Langner, Chloe
boutique: Gamberdella
invitation: Kindly RSVP Designs
transportation: Ride Thoroughbred

francesca + zach | a classic and romantic spring wedding at the Grand Lodge

On a bright and sunny Saturday in May, Francesca and Zach were married at the Grand Lodge in Cockeysville surrounded by their friends, family and some incredible Italian traditions, food, dancing and decor.

This breathtaking wedding was originally supposed to happen in September but due to Covid it was postponed and thankfully, Mother Nature was on her best behavior for us!

THIS MAY WEDDING WILL MAKE YOU SWOON FOR 3 REASONS…

1. The golden hour sunset was EPIC but we almost missed it! They are my favorite images to end a wedding day with but the sun never waits, so we had to keep a close eye on the timeline (dinner, dancing, speeches, etc) and make sure to grab Francesca and Zach right as the sun got low enough to make magic like this… SO worth it!

2. Francesca’s dress was absolutely perfect for her; full of gorgeous floral lace detail and a sweetheart neckline with straps, it added so much to the elegant, classic and romantic spring feel. She accessorized with blue Badgley Mischka heels, a cathedral veil, long sparkly earrings and an updo full of loose curls.

3. The ballroom was fully draped with a braided pattern behind the band’s stage; guests enjoyed a variety of seating with 2 gold and burgundy lounge setups flanking the dance floor. Francesca + Zach’s sweetheart table was full of tall candles and an enormous blush, ivory and burgundy floral arrangement.

Arriving at the Grand Lodge after the church ceremony in Canton meant it was time for wedding party and family portraits; we found the perfect spot in the courtyard and among some of the mature trees surrounding the property!

The ballroom setup was complete before guests entered and the oversized mirror with guests’ seating assignments (scroll down to see!) and the enormous 4 tiered wedding cake were some of my favorite unique elements!!

Onyx Band kept the dance floor rocking NONSTOP the entire night, it was incredible! There were 10 band members and they were all so talented and entertaining!

Congratulations again, newlyweds!! We were honored to be a part of your wedding day - SO glad you had such incredible weather to celebrate after having to postpone from September… timing is everything! Enjoy getting used to calling each other husband and wife! :)

xo,
Naomi

Vendor Team

Ceremony: Sacred Heart of Jesus Church
Reception: Grand Masonic Lodge
Planning: Elizabeth Bailey Weddings
Florist: Ann’s Garden
Photography: Urban Row Photography
Videography: Rivion Films
Catering: The Classic Catering People
Hair: Evangelin Pesci
Makeup: Amie Decker Beauty
Music: Onyx Band of Washington Talent
Cake: Cake by Jason
Rentals: Select Event Group, Party Rental Ltd, White Glove Rentals
Linens: Table Toppers
Lighting: Event Dynamics
Production/Staging: Event Pro
Transportation: Extraordinair Limo

holly + josh | a fancy, formal + fun Bromo Seltzer Clock Tower engagement

The sky was bright and blue when we met up at the Bromo Seltzer Clock Tower for Holly + Josh’s formal engagement portraits on a sunny December morning.

I had been looking forward to our time together in this space since we first started talking about their vision for photos… it was my first time being inside this epic industrial, historic and charm-filled Baltimore venue! Seeing how happy they make each other and how perfectly quirky, silly and sweet their love story is, it was so easy to document them in a natural, candid and relaxed way.

5 FUN FACTS ABOUT…

HOLLY + JOSH’S PORTRAITS AT THE BROMO SELTZER CLOCK TOWER + CEREMONY COFFEE IN MT VERNON

1. We brainstormed a few different locations before landing on the Bromo Seltzer Clock Tower and it was THE perfect spot: full of natural light, private, intimate, one of a kind, historic and fun...

2. Holly + Josh made clear to me that they had a vision for what they wanted and it wasn’t the typical engagement session feel. They wanted artsy and different. The art and creativity of the portrait itself was important to them; quality over quantity.

3. The Clock Tower is one of the most unique and photogenic structures in Baltimore (seriously, have you ever seen a location that even comes close to being as memorable as this?!) so I love that they juxtaposed how raw and textured it is with their fancy, formal attire.

4. Sharing a love of coffee, one of their first shared cups together was at IKEA… (browsing there is my idea of a perfect date too!)

5. Since the Clock Tower is not far from Mt. Vernon, we had to end at Ceremony Coffee which provided the perfect contrast with it’s modern design aesthetic.

I love how the story of how they met…

“A mutual friend of ours, Alex, started a monthly dinner party where a group of friends pick a theme and meet at someone's house to cook and eat together. We met at one of those, talked some more at one a few months later, and then had our first ‘I'm not sure if this is a date’ date at Ikea. That date lasted 13 hours and included our first coffee together of much more to come.”

But love even more, their idea of a perfect Friday night:

Holly: “Fancy, delicious, photo-worthy food and wine along with a scenic walk through an unknown city.”

Josh: “What she said, with a side of witty-banter.”

Our #urpcouples are the best.

I can’t wait to have you both back in front of my camera for your wedding next month at Wyndridge Farm in PA!! Your joy and love is contagious - you both light up a room and I can’t wait to document your wedding day; I know it will be full of laughter, emotion and gorgeous style!

xo,
Naomi

afryea + shaquille | a spring elopement in downtown baltimore and druid hill park

Afryea and Shaquille are the definition of soulmates that compliment each other in every way!

Their intimate Baltimore elopement took place on one of the coldest days we’ve had this spring so far (it was 36 degrees and flurried earlier that morning!), but you’d never know while looking at the photos… they exude joy, happiness and respect for each other, while being the perfect amount of quiet and thoughtfully contemplative (Shaquille) combined with energetic excitement and bubbly radiance (Afryea).

The sun was shining bright and I’m so grateful to have had the opportunity to document a love story like theirs! The world needs more of their kind of love.

Afryea and Shaquille got ready and had an intimate, heartfelt ceremony at the Baltimore Marriott Waterfront downtown with their families witnessing the love, excitement and memorable vows they shared.

I was OBSESSED with both the minimal yet gorgeous pearl jewelry Afryea incorporated into her bridal look, complimenting the low back, soft lace dress she wore as well as Shaquille’s powder blue suit and floral tie.

Shaquille’s close friend Jim officiated and there was no shortage of laughs, happy tears, warm blessings by each family member and excitement for their future together. All of their words brought me to tears behind the camera!

Their expressions in the photo above (one of my favorites!) was brought to you by the best comment by Afryea’s dad: “you all could be a toothpaste commercial!” He’s not wrong!!

After the ceremony we took portraits in Druid Hill Park which had so many beautiful spring buds and blossoms opening up and matching blue skies to Shaq’s suit… it was almost like they planned it that way! ;)

I wish you both a lifetime of happiness and never-ending joy together as you continue to grow as a couple and start your life as newlyweds in New Orleans; you already have an incredible foundation with all the love from your families and your roots in Baltimore and NY!

Thank you for trusting me to document your wedding day - it was an absolute honor!!

xo,
Naomi

francesca + zach | a modern Gunther & Co. engagement

Francesca and Zach were so relaxed in front of the camera, making them an absolute joy to photograph… these two are model material and seriously set the bar so high! Their relationship is effortless and so full of joy - not to mention, incredible style…

5 REASONS WHY GUNTHER & CO. WAS THE PERFECT SPOT FOR FRANCESCA + ZACH’S ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS

1. Francesca + Zach had their first date here…

2. …and named their dog Gunther, since that’s where it all started!

3. The modern design of Gunther & Co was a beautifully simple backdrop to show off their love and relationship.

4. We had the back patio at Gunther & Co to ourselves and it was the perfect spot for a relaxing cocktail!

5. The golden hour sun peeked around the front of the building at just the right time for us to take advantage of it - this light is what all engagement session dreams are made of!

I love the way they look at each other and how Zach makes Francesca smile. It’s so genuine and full of excitement for what’s to come!

When golden hour came out to play, we were ready and waiting for those glowy shots… and they CRUSHED it!!

Francesca and Zach, I’m SO excited to see you again and document your wedding day in May - I know you’ve been waiting for this day for years, literally!!

xo,
Naomi

10 Accelerator Space Weddings: Industrial Chic Inspiration, Decor + Ideas

If you’re considering having your wedding at an industrial wedding venue in Baltimore, the Accelerator Space is one of my favorites! Here’s what I love most about it:

1. tons of natural light and character made up of old wood floors, metal walls, large windows and huge skylights

2. one large open space for you to design to best fit your vision - there are endless configurations!!

3. a bonus room (the den) for ceremony, cocktail hour, ketubah signing and/or family / couple portraits

4. an intimate patio for ceremony, cocktail hour and stunning sunset portraits

5. proximity to open green space and urban industrial space for first looks offsite… if you’re curious, ask and I’ll share my fave spots with you! ;)

Since I’ve photographed 10 weddings at the Accelerator Space so far (with more coming!), I wanted to compile a helpful resource for you full of unique ideas and wedding decor inspiration; it showcases how every couple’s wedding day at this specific venue has been different, yet incredibly beautiful! There are countless ways to layout this warehouse space, locate your band, setup your tables, divide the space for a ceremony and reception all in one area, organize the flow, hang bistro or twinkle lights, drapery, etc.

I honestly believe it is one of the most versatile and unique wedding venues in Baltimore! Without further ado, enjoy these gorgeous weddings full of vibrant color, genuine emotion, candid moments and passionately in love urban couples!

an August Accelerator Space wedding with juicy, vibrant florals and pops of orange, coral and peach

what made this wedding unique?

• With the Accelerator Space decked out in bright and vibrant summery pink, peach, coral and orange florals and greenery on the metal wall, it felt like a lush garden mixed with an industrial chic wonderland.

• The mix of long rectangular and round tables as well as floral arrangements of different heights in the space added interest and contrast to the space.

• The band setup against the far metal wall — that’s actually my favorite place for them to be in this space since it then allows a large area for the dance floor with a picturesque, crisp backdrop and no windows behind them.

• The sun didn’t cooperate at sunset, but that didn’t stop us from taking advantage of flattering golden hour light… we took some really fun photos using motion blur as Laura twirled on the patio!

a black tie wedding at the Accelerator Space in June with sentimental color

some of the unique details from Tori + Sam’s wedding:

• taking group portraits near the venue in a lush, garden-y North Baltimore neighborhood with just the right amount of shade, space to spread out and beautiful afternoon light — just ask me, I know all the best spots for all types of portraits! ;)

• they got married in a beautiful interfaith ceremony officiated by two of their best friends against the textured metal wall and under the most beautiful glowing afternoon sunlight streaming through the enormous skylights.

• when it was time for cocktail hour, the light pouring into the Den where Tori got bustled, was simply exquisite. Frankly, the light coming into this venue at all times is just a photographer’s dream!

• the reception decor included black taper and pillar candles in gold candlesticks and glass on every table with arrangements full of deep reds, oranges, pinks and maroon flowers; the anemones are my fave! It all added up to a vibe that was modern and edgy, yet romantic and elegant. Seeing Tori’s face light up when they entered and saw the reception space for the first time was definitely a highlight for me.

a relaxed mid-summer Accelerator Space wedding with 2 dogs and lush blooms

some of the unique details from this wedding day:

• After their first look, we went to one of my favorite wedding party portrait spaces – the open areas near the Homeland lakes. I live closeby, so I walk there often and am always thinking of different ways to document my couples in its gorgeous surroundings. The fact that it’s so close to The Accelerator Space is a bonus!

• Ceremony was held in the front part of the Accelerator Space, near the large glass black metal doors. Thurman + Fig designed a romantic floral installation of hanging carnations in various shades of whites, reds, blush pinks, and maroons to soften up the industrial feel of the space. This gorgeous floral installation was then repurposed as the backdrop of their sweetheart table.

• A gorgeous honey colored wood bar with a honeycomb pattern served as a focal point of the reception space.

a winter Accelerator Space wedding with edgy, modern, boho (+ craft beer) vibes

what details made this wedding special?

• Leap Day was their date, the same anniversary as the bride’s grandparents!

• maroon, blush, black, gold and greenery made up the edgy boho, modern vibe

• two of their favorite local craft beers were created as signature drinks and we took portraits in the brewery just below the Accelerator Space, Full Tilt Brewing

• a 6′ black acrylic sign made with song lyrics from their favorite band, The Avett Brothers, announced the escort card display

• escort card display featured mini glasses of beer with hand-lettered table assignments on a coin card secured to each glass

• creative and fun food stations by Zeffert & Gold allowed the guests to eat quicker than a seated, plated dinner

• epic hanging dried floral installation by Thurman & Fig as the focal point above the den fireplace ceremony

• instead of a ‘photo booth’, they designed a ‘photo lounge’ with the perfect rental pieces from Something Vintage and moved / repurposed the dried florals to hang above it once ceremony was done!

classic + timeless, late November wedding at Accelerator Space

what details made this wedding special?

• late Fall colors and textures in the bride’s bouquet and foliage in the background of all of their portraits

• her dress had POCKETS!

• the lantern centerpieces were simple yet elegant and added a touch of contrast to the otherwise softer tones of the table decor

• cocktail hour was served on industrial tables on wheels (which are included at the venue for your use!)

summer garden industrial wedding at Accelerator Space full of texture

what details made this wedding special?

• a color palette of sage green, light blue, gold and lavender

• the ceremony against the metal wall of the venue with sheer draping engineered by the groom and…

• a copper ‘arch’ as the ceremony backdrop with hanging fabric hoops

• this couple chose to have their cocktail hour before the ceremony while their guests were arriving at the venue so they could socialize a bit since they had already had their first look! the bride changed into a second dress for this short timeframe: a short vintage-y style beaded and sparkly cocktail dress

• the long head table was adorned with lush greenery garland, sage green and gold placesettings and light blue cricut menus (made by the bride!)

geometric details at a modern Accelerator Space wedding with greenery and mixed metals

what details made this wedding special?

• allllll the greenery decor in the form of succulents, ferns and air plants

• the daytime ceremony was facing the south windows; when covered with a sheer white fabric, it diffused the light and added an ethereal effect that created a beautiful backdrop

• geometric, mixed metals were part of the modern and somewhat edgy invitation suite, the table decor and the industrial look of the ceremony chairs

• we incorporated the groom’s motorcycle for their newlywed portraits on the ramp… very fitting for a venue that used to be an auto repair shop and showroom!

a jewish wedding at Accelerator Space with mismatched BHLDN dresses in late October

what details made this wedding special?

• Jewish ceremony with a natural chuppah in front of the glass entry doors and under the skylight

• mismatched BHLDN bridesmaid dresses in blush, floral patterns

• groomsmen enjoying cigars along the blue mural side of the building

• energetic dance floor reception

a spring Accelerator Space wedding full of all white bouquets, pastel colors and a large wedding party (20 people!)

what details made this wedding special?

• cherry blossoms (in late April)

• chic lounge setup in the ‘den’

• large wedding party wearing periwinkle, gold and navy with all-white bouquets

an early November jewish Accelerator Space wedding with a light gray + navy color palette

what details made this wedding special?

• ceremony located in the middle of the main space, with draping behind

• rainy newlywed photos on the patio lit by bistro lights

• live band setup + the hora

There are so many different vibes to take advantage of and design for if you’re getting married at the Accelerator Space! What’s yours going to be?

xo,
Naomi

lisa + kyle | a colorful blagden alley dc engagement session

There was so much to love about my time with Lisa + Kyle during their Blagden Alley engagement session in DC!

Here are a few of my favorite moments from our time and the reasons why I love couples that aren’t shy in sharing what makes their relationship so special… it’s so easy to see how happy these two make each other!

4 REASONS WHY THIS BRIGHT AND COLORFUL BLAGDEN ALLEY ENGAGEMENT SESSION WILL MAKE YOU SMILE:

1. Their photos are a blend of fun, vibrant, colors within the LOVE mural in Blagden Alley contrasted with neutrals and greenery among nearby alleys and street corners in Logan Circle.
   
   2. The genuine love and laughter they share is heartwarming and immediately smile inducing!
   
   3. The rose gold engagement ring Kyle gave Lisa is so intricate and unique!
   
   4. This adorable couple knew they wanted to incorporate their love of the architecture in and around where they live, so we specifically spent time finding unique buildings and backdrops that complimented their outfits and dynamic personalities!

No shortage of laughs and silly yet sweet moments being playful and enjoying this time together; I always encourage my couples to just be in the moment and not think too much about what I’m there doing… Lisa and Kyle NAILED it!

Lisa and Kyle, I absolutely adored our time together exploring some of your favorite DC spots! I hope you both continue to encourage each other to laugh and dance in the streets long after you’re married - it’s the best way to keep the spark alive!

xo,
Naomi

sarma + chandler | an elegant and refined wedding at home in annapolis

The sky was full of clouds for most of the day this past Saturday. The temperature was perfect, but the sky wasn’t sure what it wanted to do as gray storm clouds hovered above with blue sky trying to peek out. Just before the sun actually set, golden light beamed through the trees and cast the warmest glow on this beautiful newlywed couple.

Sarma and Chandler had very different wedding plans a few months ago; their winter wedding in downtown Baltimore suddenly couldn’t take place due to Covid, so they moved their wedding to the lawn of their serene yard overlooking the water, in the place they now call home.

Watching their first dance together as husband and wife under the stars and bistro lights of the clear top tent, they radiated joy and so much promise for the life they will continue to build together for decades to come.

Their late October wedding was full of incredibly simple yet chic details that tied everything together so perfectly:

1. I almost lost it when I saw Sarma in her beaded cape from BHLDN - it looked like it was made for her! Talk about breathtaking!!

2. Her half-up, half-down hairstyle with twists and loose curls created a playfully elegant and soft, romantic vibe.

3. A lush and modern bouquet full of ranunculus, garden roses, scabiosa, burgundy dahlias, butterfly ranunculus and pink lisianthus was the perfect combination of dark and light tones.

4. An intimate dinner was held on the deck, under a clear top tent lined with bistro lights, burgundy linens, floral napkins and gold cutlery. The clear chiavari chairs only elevated the look.

5. Signature cocktails (French 75 for her, Bulleit on the rocks for him) and cigars were enjoyed while the sun set within a pastel colored Fall sky.

Congratulations to you both!! I was honored to document the official start of your married life together and wish you many more epic sunsets together!

xo,
Naomi

VENDOR LOVE:

planning + design: Lynn Aaron of Nouvelle Weddings
photography: Urban Row Photography
florals: Stacy Bowen Floral Design
caterer: Classic Catering
tent + lighting: Loane Bros.
music: Hill Chamber Music
makeup: Kristen Floyd Bridal
hair: Up Do’s for I Do’s
officiant: Anita Varzbergs-Paža
rentals: Select Event Group
day of paper: MLC Designs
dress: BHLDN Caron V-Neck Crepe
cape: BHLDN Palmer Cape
shoes: Badgley Mischka Jewel Tessy Embellished Sandal

victoria + nial | a colorful mini wedding in downtown baltimore

Victoria and Nial have a love story that all started on a Baltimore bench (after initially meeting on Bumble!). These two share the sweetest love and admiration for each other while also appreciating the importance and love of family, connection and good food. I’m SO excited to share their micro wedding and courthouse elopement with you!! It’s full of tons of color, modern details and my favorite portrait locations in Baltimore!

“On New Years Eve we were going to a comedy show and I told her we would walk to this taco spot before for dinner. She didn’t know this would happen and she invited a friend to join us. I told him the plan and asked him to try to get some photos. Then while passing our bench I asked her to take a picture with me on the bench and then proposed.

She was surprised. Speechless for a bit. And said YES! We went to eat tacos and the comedy show. I don’t think she could stop smiling. She cried only as it sunk in, as we were having tacos. She didn’t want the tears to ruin her makeup…”

How incredibly gorgeous is Victoria’s bouquet?! So colorful while also being soft, elegant, romantic and not too bold… LOVE!!!

OBSESSED, actually.

A beautiful day for a stroll and some portraits in Patterson Park near the pagoda, just down the street from where they call home… city life and love at its finest.

After leaving Patterson Park, we stopped at this bench on the corner of Eastern + Wolfe St. in Upper Fells; this is the same bench where Victoria + Nial first met and later on, where he surprised Victoria and proposed! It was only fitting to have it flowered and full of lush color and a super romantic look for photos, by Steelcut Flower Co. Their #urbanrowpup Raffi even got in on the blooms with his own floral collar!

Our last stop of the day was in Fells, for portraits on the water at Broadway Pier before the happy couple celebrated with cocktails and dinner at the Pendry. But first, what celebration would be complete without popping champagne?!

Sending you all the love and congratulations as you continue getting used to calling each other husband and wife, Victoria and Nial! You planned such a flawless day with so many lovely ways to celebrate how your Baltimore love story came to be!

xo,
Naomi

…huge thanks to this talented team!

florals: Steelcut Flower Co.
dress: Calvin Klein
suit: Calvin Klein
videography: Adam Green
dinner reception: Sagamore Pendry
ceremony: Baltimore City courthouse

grace + david | an elaborate dinner party wedding at woodend sanctuary

Grace + David’s wedding day made me fall head over heels in love with them as a couple again… they personalized their day to be exactly what they wanted while staying true to themselves and prioritizing safety, family and a fabulous celebration (but you need to scroll down to see the way they both reacted during their first look and how to make a dinner for 9 incredibly elegant and memorable with a few key elements).

If you missed their engagement photos, go see them here, where I share more about the start of their love story and all the sophisticated, silly, sweetness that makes up their relationship! One of my favorite details that stands out and is still so rare these days is that they planned and executed their proposal together.

THIS ELABORATE YET INTIMATE DINNER PARTY WEDDING AT WOODEND SANCTUARY FELT LIKE A DREAM DAY FOR THESE 5 REASONS:

1. Yes they had a small guest list, but that didn’t stop Grace and David from having a celebration that was full of texture and fancy, luxurious and lush garden party vibes.

2. Incorporating one of the bride’s favorite landmarks, the Bishop’s garden at the National Cathedral, not only made for breathtaking portraits, but it complimented the feel of the entire day being primarily outdoors in an elegant and stately garden setting while still having covered areas in case of rain.

3. There were toasts, appetizers, multiple courses, dancing and lounging in a setting that consistently celebrated nature as the backdrop. Woodend Sanctuary has so many unique areas to host the entire wedding day: the tented terrace, grove of trees, portico, great hall and 2 separate getting ready suites!

4. With an intimate guest list of 11 including the couple and the bride’s adorable little nephews, everyone had a chance to share their wishes for the couple! David’s parents each gave a toast that was full of the sweetest life lessons and memories of his childhood while Grace’s parents recited a poem they created. When David’s Dad ended his thoughts with “now he’ll always have Grace to love him”, I nearly lost it behind the camera…

5. Grace changed dresses (I love when couples embrace an outfit change to make the reception more easily danceable and fun!) while David enjoyed whiskey in the library with his groomsmen.

But let’s back up to how the day started, as Grace got ready with her parents… here are some of the adjectives that come to mind as the day began: relaxed, classic, timeless, genuine, thoughtful, beautiful, sentimental, intimate, focused on family…

Throughout the wedding planning process (and even more so as we got closer to the big day that was postponed from May to August due to the pandemic), Grace and David always had the right attitude... they found their person and were excited to be married in whatever form that took!

I was so looking forward to documenting their rehearsal dinner and welcome reception at The Hay-Adams in DC with a ceremony and reception at Woodend Sanctuary in Chevy Chase, MD the next day. Then when COVID hit, those plans weren’t feasible. They knew that safely celebrating with their parents and siblings was the top priority and so downsizing to an extremely intimate and elaborate dinner party for 9 at Woodend Sanctuary after a ceremony where both of their fathers officiated, became the new plan. Working with Vanessa of Little Black Book they planned an extraordinarily relaxing and picturesque day that started with a first look and newlywed portraits at Bishop’s Garden at the National Cathedral.

Grace and David not only saw each other for the first time on their wedding day among the roses of Bishop’s Garden, but they were able to truly relax, enjoy and savor a slower pace before their ceremony since we had set aside 2 hours of time for portraits and signing their marriage license in a courtyard at the National Cathedral.

When it started to drizzle, we moved under one of the covered areas of the Cathedral where there is a beautifully tranquil space to sit and regroup… proof that a little rain is not only good luck, but inspires creativity in finding new portrait backdrops that have become some of my favorite from the day!

Originally planning to hold the ceremony in the tree grove at Woodend, their plan B turned out just as beautiful, if not more, because the garden-inspired florals on the long headtable were able to frame the ceremony views. Nadine DeLeon Designs incorporated pink and white blooms intertwined with greenery garland running along the front of the table - paired with light blue glassware and matching napkins to compliment the blue hues of their summer dinner party, it was such an inviting and elegantly whimsical tented patio ceremony and reception!

As soon as the ceremony was over, lounge seating was setup surrounding the perimeter of the ‘dance floor’ and a warm palette of mustard, gold and pink whimsical garden vibes with pops of blue and greenery accenting the space. David and the groomsmen (their dads and brothers!) enjoyed drinks in the library of the historic estate while Grace changed into her second dress of the evening that was clearly made for twirling...!

Congratulations again to you both and your loving families!! I was honored to be able to celebrate alongside you and document all of the love, support and joy that went into such a perfect intimate wedding - I can’t wait for you to continue to twirl and dance your way into married life!

xo,
Naomi

kudos to this talented vendor team!

design + planning: Little Black Book
venue: Woodend Sanctuary
portraits: Bishop’s Garden at the National Cathedral
florals: Nadine DeLeon Designs
catering: Purple Onion Catering
transportation: Reston Limousine

erin + brandon | a romantic and timeless maryland wedding

Erin and Brandon had been planning to get married in June, but when the pandemic required their plans to shift, they not only changed their date, but had to change their venue and church as well. Erin sewed floral masks that coordinated with her bridesmaids’ dresses and bouquets in shades of pink while the week before the wedding, they decided to move their reception plans for a ballroom wedding, outside under a tent… these two have been through so much together before ever even walking down the aisle!

The one part of their wedding day that never changed was a location Erin had suggested to me for some of their portraits: the bridge along Paper Mill Rd. on the way to their venue. The architecture and design of the historic bridge is incredible: the entire structure is painted white with incredible lines and geometries to play with as a backdrop for photos… I was immediately OBSESSED and the photos we took here are EPIC!!

Erin had 2 pairs of wedding day shoes ready: sparkly silver Betsey Johnson heels that complimented her jewelry for the beginning part of the day and rose gold sparkly keds with pink laces that worked so well with all the shades of pink in her wedding flowers and photos on a bridge, of course…

Throughout the entire process, they handled all of the challenges thrown at them with so much grace and a positive attitude… but when you get to know Erin and Brandon, you realize that’s just how they are as people. Erin’s smile will light up any room she walks into and Brandon’s relaxed and caring demeanor brings a calm sensibility to every situation.

There’s something so classic about wedding photos in front of red church doors… right? But I also really love the contrast of the next spot we went to for portraits being on the bridge and so full of contrast, lines and shadow to create a unique, modern and creative look!

Cheers, newlyweds - you did it!! You’re married, you looked incredible, you had all the love of so many family and friends, with every last detail coming together so beautifully. While you made it look easy, I hope this is the last pandemic you’ll go through together! ;)

xo,
Naomi

all the vendor love goes to this team:

venue: Hillendale Country Club
photography: Urban Row Photography
video: Shane of Cork & Banner Films
DJ: Evan of My Deejay
hair/makeup: Bridal Glow with Victoria O
florals: Ann’s Garden
gown: Stella York at Garnish Boutique
cake: Sugar Bakers Cakes
favors: Jenny’s Messy Apron
bridesmaid dresses: Bill Levkoff mint green dresses from the Bridal Boutique in Columbia
earrings + bracelet: Olive and Piper
groom + groomsmen attire: Men’s Wearhouse